Wednesday, May 30, 2012

Wedding Wednesday: 2 August 1954, Mary and Michael ever after

There has been a lot of loss in my family of late, and sometimes losing the ones we love can be so overwhelming that it is easy to forget the times of joy they knew in their lives. Although it is not the anniversary of my parents' wedding until the second day of August, today I am posting these photographs in celebration of the love and the life they had together. I am so very grateful to my mom for saving these precious photographs, leaving them to me, and thus granting me the privilege of being their future caretaker.

On the day my parents married, my mom Mary Jane Teresa Ball was aged 23 years, and my father Michael Francis Geraghty was 25 years old. Their future was all about possibility, and these photographs reflect the happiness they felt as they embarked on their new life together. The first image posted here is so very special to me. It features my maternal grandfather, Patrick Ball, whom I never had the opportunity to meet. He is escorting his second born daughter, and seventh born child, Mary Jane Teresa into Ringsend Roman Catholic Church, Dublin. This is one of the very few images I have of my grandfather.

If you have experienced loss in your family, take out the old photographs you have, and remember happy times. Even if you have not lost someone, take the opportunity now to look at old photographs with family members, to share their stories, to tell them that you love them.

On her father's arm, the stroll into the church.
The marriage ceremony as viewed from the choir loft of Ringsend Church.
Now husband and wife - Michael and Mary Geraghty
From left to right:
John Geraghty (Dad's brother), Michael Geraghty (my dad), Mary Ball (my mom), Kate Ball (Mary's sister).
After the church wedding, the very serious business of civil registration.

It's time to celebrate.
At the wedding breakfast, the cutting of the cake.

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Tuesday, May 29, 2012

Tuesday's Tips: Sources you may have overlooked: Irish Manuscripts

Although many of us who are obsessed with Irish family history and genealogy might daydream about 15th century records of birth, 16th century marriage documents, and fully detailed pre-20th century census records — fully digitized and all freely available online too — we can't always get what we want.

Since we can't always get what we want, we have to want what we can get. To that end, on today's Tuesday's Tips, I am recommending a source which is fully digitized, available online and free to access. The source is The Irish Manuscripts Commission.

The mandate of the Irish Manuscripts Commission is "to promote access to and dissemination of primary sources for Irish history and culture". The commission is actively engaged in a programme of digitization of their back list of publications, many of which are now out of print. Each manuscript opens up with a search box into which you can plug any search term you wish.

The manuscripts in this collection are of major genealogical import, because they include information about individuals of all ranks and social classes, even the lowest of the tenancy. I have posted a couple of images to give you a taste of the kind of information you might find in these manuscripts. 

The Inchiquin Manuscripts

This volume holds papers calendared from the estate and family of the O’Briens, who were the Earls of Inchiquin, the Earls of Thomond and — from 1855 — the Barons Inchiquin. It covers the period from the 16th century through to the 19th century. This will be of particular interest to Irish family history researchers with Brien/O'Brien connections in County Clare — where the first Earl held an estate of over 40,000 acres — as well as County Limerick and County Cork. Among the gems in this volume are details about leases & other deeds, wills & administrations, marriage settlements, and rentals & accounts. Some of the deeds are transcribed in the original Latin. This volume also includes an index of persons mentioned in the volume, as well as an index of places.

Click on THIS LINK to access this manuscript volume.

Click on --> The Landed Estates Database for information about properties connected to the Earls of Inchiquin.

The Kenmare Manuscripts

These manuscripts comprise the family papers and manuscripts of the Earl of Kenmare. Of particular interest to the Irish family history researcher may be the rental ledgers and estate account books. Also included in the transcription are a number of leases, conveyances, and letters which may be of interest. For example, a series of letters dating to 1730/31 from Daniel Cronin, an agent for the Kenmare Estate in the period, describes the condition of the estate, and makes mention of many local residents. Unfortunately, the editor of this volume, Edward MacLysaght, sometimes describes the content of various letters rather than simply transcribing them.

Some of the entries included from the Viscount Kenmare's Book of Observations make for an interesting read because he offers opinions about his tenants. Of one of his tenants in Clounteens, County Limerick, the Viscount observes, "The tenant, Derby Cronin, [is] very backward in paying his rent, and very low in his circumstances in great measure by his own default and mismanagement".

Click on THIS LINK to access this manuscript volume

Click on --> The Landed Estates Database for information about properties connected to the Earl of Kenmare, as well as an extensive listing of other sources.

A snippet from a transcribed rental ledger, dated May 1705 - May 1706.
The Calendar of Ormond Deeds

The full title of this manuscript is 'The Calendar of Ormond Deeds: Being the Mediaeval Documents Preserved at Kilkenny Castle'. The manuscripts transcribed in these volumes date from the 12th century to the 17th century, specifically from about 1170 to 1605, and comprise the largest collection of extant Irish Mediaeval records.

From 1932 to 1943, Edmund Curtis, Professor of Modern History at Trinity College, Dublin, focussed his attention on the transcription and publication of the deeds and documents portion of this collection. Included are transcriptions of such documents as wills, letters patent, indentures, and even lists of tenants. Each volume includes an extensive table of contents entitled 'The List of Deeds' which gives a brief synopsis of each individual transcription found within.

Click on THIS LINK to access a list of volumes which comprise this collection.

A snippet of a list of tenants, dated 1595-96.
A 'feoffee' is basically a trustee or agent working for the Earl.
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Monday, May 21, 2012

The last birthday card

When I was a child, my mother always stressed the importance of remembering birthdays. There was, she said, nothing more delightful than an acknowledgement of the day on which you were born. It was a celebration meant only for the individual in question, not a shared holiday, such as Christmas or Easter. While she enjoyed receiving gifts which had been thoughtfully chosen, above all, Mom loved receiving birthday cards. Mom said as far as she was concerned you could do away with the presents; it was the cards which were so very important to her.

On a Friday, I bought the last birthday card I will ever give to my mom. Her birthday and Mother's Day fell on the same date this year, Sunday, 13 May. After a very brief illness, Mom died on the evening of the very next day, surrounded by the family she loved.

On that Sunday, we were all there to see Mom open the cards which would mark her 81st birthday, as well as the cards for Mother's Day. Mom was wearing an oxygen mask which was helping her breathe, so she could not put on her eyeglasses. Mom was too weak to read out the verses and personal messages written inside, so I stood by the side of her bed and read them aloud to her. Tears welled up in her eyes, as I opened each card, and her lips moved in whispers as I recited the verse. She took the cards in hand, and ran her fingers over the surface of them. Some of the cards had colourful flocking or little sparkles, others had scalloped edges or ribbon. Each one delighted her in its own way.

After I read out the cards, we placed them on her window sill next to her bed, and there they stood until Mom was gone, and we had to leave the hospital, on Monday night. No more will Mom gaze upon them. She will never again read out the verses, or run her hand over the cards' crafted edges. Never again will she display them across the top of her piano, and then pack them away with all of her other birthday cards, in the small blue case Mom kept under her bed.

Never again will I go to the card shop to buy a birthday card to give to Mom, a card with a pretty cover, and a poetic verse. Never again will I see the smile come over her lips, as she reads the words of love meant only for her.

It was the last birthday card.

Mary Jane Teresa Ball Geraghty
13 May 1931 - 14 May 2012


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